Dating as a Nude model

For most of my art modeling career up until recently, I was in a committed relationship with a man. He was no stranger to the world of nude art, having worked as a nude photographer for many years before we got together. With his long-standing experience in the art industry and his open-minded approach to relationships, sexuality, and nude art, I was fortunate to have a partner who understood the complexities and nuances of my work.

Having a partner who was already well-versed in the potential taboos made a huge difference in my ability to explore and express myself fully as a naked art model. He not only supported my career but provided a safe, judgment-free space where I could push boundaries and evolve. In a relationship like that, I felt confident in being completely open about my work and the creative vision I pursued.

But recently, we both came to the conclusion that transitioning into a platonic friendship was what we needed, and we’ve remained best friends and continued supporters of each other. While I now have the freedom to explore my art modeling career as a single woman, it does raise an important question—what does dating look like when you’re a nude art model?

The truth is, dating while being a naked art model presents unique challenges. For instance, how many men are comfortable with the idea of their partner being publicly nude across the internet? It’s a valid question, and one that I’m still navigating. I can’t yet offer any definitive conclusions, but I do have some observations and experiences that reflect where I am in this process right now.

In my experience, people’s reactions to nude art modeling can vary wildly, and dating is no exception. Some men, including many of my close male friends, are entirely supportive. They understand the difference between nude art and pornography, and they view my work with respect and genuine curiosity. These men see the artistry and expression in what I do, and they celebrate my career for the raw, human connection it fosters.

But, of course, not everyone sees it that way. I’ve also encountered men who feel deeply uncomfortable with the thought of me being naked online, even if it’s in an artistic context. For some, it taps into insecurities, jealousy, or a personal discomfort with nudity itself. And this isn’t surprising, everyone has their own unique conditioning, values, and beliefs. Cultural norms and societal pressures have influenced how people view nudity, especially in relationships. I’ve come across men who are quick to judge or disapprove, believing that being a nude art model is somehow incompatible with being in a “serious” relationship.

Navigating these varied reactions is both frustrating and fascinating. On one hand, I don’t let other people’s discomfort define my self-worth or limit my expression as an art model. Nude art is a powerful form of creative freedom, and the judgment of others doesn’t diminish its value or my passion for it. At the same time, dating involves finding someone whose values align with yours, and if a potential partner can’t accept my work as a nude art model, that’s not someone I want to build a relationship with anyway.

There are moments, though, when I do have fears about how potential partners might react. After all, nude art modeling is a significant part of my life, and it’s not something I can hide or compartmentalize. Anyone who wants to date me will have to accept that I’m a naked art model and that my work is visible for the world to see.

But I also believe that there are people out there who will not only accept but appreciate this part of me. I’ve already met men who have expressed nothing but support and interest in my career, seeing it for what it is: an art form, a way to capture the beauty of the human body, and a medium for storytelling. These people offer a refreshing perspective, proving that there’s room for open-mindedness, curiosity, and genuine admiration in the world of dating, even for those of us who work in more unconventional fields.

Moving Forward

For now, I don’t have a definitive answer to what dating looks like as a nude art model. It’s a learning curve and each new interaction teaches me something different about people’s perceptions of nude art and relationships. But I’m not in a rush. I’m content with being open, honest, and unapologetic about what I do, and I know that the right person will appreciate that.

So, if you’re curious about how things evolve for me in the dating world, stay tuned. I’ll keep you updated with stories and insights as they unfold. Because while dating as a naked art model may come with unique challenges, I’m confident that it’ll lead to some fascinating conversations, new connections, and maybe even a few surprises along the way.

Until next time!

—Brooke